Boundaries...

Relationships, friendships, families, personal.... Everything has boundaries. It is our duty to uphold these boundaries and ensure that they are not crossed. I believe the most commonly crossed boundaries are those pertaining to relationships. I must admit, i myself am guilty of not properly enforcing my relationship boundaries from the start the way i needed to. This has led to outside women trying there best to destroy the relationship i was sharing with whomever i was with at the time. Late phone calls, text messages referring to me as "babe" or "sweety", these are things that can quickly destroy the foundation of a relationship. I acknowledge my faults. I have since ended contact with any woman who does anything of the sort. I am trying as a man to end all outside interference as far as my relationships go.

Yet it isn't just the loose men/women that you may have casually talked to that will try this. "Friends" will eagerly try to sabotage your happiness with that special someone. And no I'm not talking about the friends that you have had since you were playing tag at recess(though some of these close people will take this dark path themselves, but that's another blog). I'm referring to the ex boyfriends/girlfriends that portray themselves to genuinely care about your happiness with the next person, while in reality plotting their own selfish interference. The key here is for us to wisely pick up on what they are doing before our partner becomes aware of the schemes, otherwise you open a whole new plateau of problems that NOBODY wants to deal with.


Remember, you don't physically have to see this person to be aiding them in their wrong doings. Sometimes all it takes is a simple conversation for you to allow the damage to take place. So lets fight for what is important to us. Living in your past can hinder your present, which subsequently destroys any prospect for your future...